Benjamin & Victoria
There’s something so special about witnessing the love story of someone close to you—and being entrusted to document it? That’s an honor beyond words. On September 27, 2024, my cousin Benjamin married the love of his life, Victoria, at the stunning Turning Stone Resort and Casino in Verona, New York. From the moment they met in 2017, their story has been filled with laughter, loyalty, and undeniable love. Allow me to take you through their incredible wedding day and share a little about this amazing couple.
Tori and Ben’s journey began six years ago when Tori’s roommate, Caitlin, and Caitlin’s boyfriend, Ray, played a little matchmaking. Ray told Ben about Tori and jokingly said, “You guys should go out.” Well, Ben took that to heart. Before even meeting her, Ben was confidently telling people, “I’m going to marry that girl.” Talk about calling your shot! The two eventually connected, discovering they lived just across the street from each other. Casual neighborhood walks and puppy playdates with their dogs, Bentley and Bruce, soon turned into something more. They fell fast and hard, becoming nearly inseparable from the start. Six years of love, laughter, and building a life together brought us all to this extraordinary day.
The morning of the wedding was filled with excitement and joy. Tori, a talented hairdresser, styled her bridal party’s hair alongside her closest friends, showcasing her artistry and adding a personal touch to the day. Moments with family were equally special—Tori’s mom helped her button her intricate gown while her soon-to-be mother-in-law carefully placed her veil.
Meanwhile, Ben prepared with his groomsmen, dad, and stepdad in a nearby venue space. His dad helped him get ready, looking sharp in a custom vest that added an extra touch of sophistication. Ben’s suit was equally striking, featuring custom sleeves embroidered with his initials. The room was filled with laughter, camaraderie, and the kind of support only family and lifelong friends can bring.
One of the most touching moments was the first look between Tori and her father. Watching Tori’s mom look on with pride and admiration was a testament to the deep bond they share as a family.
The ceremony took place on the gorgeous Great Lawn at Turning Stone. It was the perfect blend of sentimental, hilarious, and reminiscent.
Seeing so many friends and family members gathered to celebrate the love between these two was pure joy and their excitement for this union was palpable.
As the ceremony began, there was a poignant moment of remembrance for those who couldn’t be with us to celebrate. Ben and Tori had reserved seats adorned with photos of their loved ones, creating a touching and intimate tribute. Among them was a cherished photo of my mom, a reminder of her spirit and love that continues to guide us. This beautiful gesture brought an emotional depth to the ceremony, ensuring that those who hold a special place in their hearts were there in spirit to witness their union.
Guests were seated as the wedding party made grand entrances from the main building, setting a majestic tone. Ben stood at the altar, his eyes welling up as he watched his family and friends walk down the aisle.
But the real moment came when Tori appeared on her father’s arm. The emotion on Ben’s face as he saw his bride said everything.
Their ceremony was officiated by Gaetano Abbate, Ben’s longtime boss and mentor. His heartfelt words highlighted the strength of Ben and Tori’s relationship and their journey together. Tori added her signature humor by dramatically blowing dust off her vow book, earning laughter from everyone present. It’s been a while in the making, she joked.
Adding a touch of fun to the ceremony, Ben and Tori included a playful game for their guests. Before the ceremony started, attendees were instructed to check under their seats for a hidden “ring.” The laughter that followed as people eagerly lifted their chairs and teased each other was a testament to the joy and lightheartedness that define this couple.
After exchanging vows and rings then sealing it with a kiss, the newlyweds made an exuberant exit down the aisle, ready to begin their forever.
Following the ceremony, family portraits were a joyful celebration of connection and love. We laughed, hugged, and captured some truly sentimental moments, including Ben’s grandfather traveling to witness this special day and sharing quiet moments with his son, Leon. “The more people, the more love” perfectly sums up the atmosphere.
The bridal party portraits were a blast. With plenty of time built into the timeline for flexibility, we had fun with playful prompts and heartfelt moments. Tori and Ben’s lifelong friendships shone brightly in every frame.
As the sun dipped lower, I had the privilege of capturing Tori and Ben’s couples session. Against the backdrop of a picturesque willow tree, a serene pond, and a glowing sunset, their love was palpable. Every pose felt like a magazine cover, and their joy radiated in every image.
Cocktail hour on the patio overlooking the golf course set the stage for a night to remember. Guests enjoyed delicious hors d’oeuvres, including a fresh mozzarella bar, while mingling and soaking in the views.
Before everyone entered the reception, Tori and Ben got a sneak peek at the room. Their eyes sparkled as they took in the romantic candles, lush florals, and elegant details.
Introductions brought high energy as the bridal party and parents danced their way in before Tori and Ben shared their first dance as husband and wife. Parent dances followed, each one emotional and heartfelt. Tori’s dance with her father had us all tearing up, and Ben’s dance with his mom was equally touching.
Speeches brought laughter and tears. Ben’s mom, Andrea, gave a beautiful blessing over their marriage, presenting them with a heartfelt gift. Caitlin, Tori’s maid of honor, spoke of their 17-year friendship and described their bond as unbreakable. Ben’s best man, Matt, shared stories of Ben’s loyalty and his admiration for the partnership Ben and Tori have built.
The couple cut their gorgeous blue ombre cake surrounded by friends and family. They fed each other and exchanged a smooch.
With dinner complete, DJ Rick from Marquee Events had everyone on their feet. The dance floor was packed with friends, family, and unforgettable moves—Tori led the way, rocking her Hey Dude Bride shoes for ultimate comfort.
And let’s not forget the Polaroid trend: Tori passed photos of herself to Ben throughout the night, leaving him both laughing and adorably confused.
As I watched my cousin marry his best friend, I was overwhelmed with gratitude. Being there to capture every moment, from the sentimental to the downright hilarious, was a gift. This wedding was more than a celebration of two people; it was a testament to family, love, and the bonds we cherish. Ben and Tori, you are a perfect match. Your love is inspiring, your humor is contagious, and your hearts are as big as the smiles you bring to everyone around you. Thank you for allowing me to be part of your day. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and adventures. Cheers to Ben & Tori!
Last but not least, their wedding film!
Ben & Tori’s featurette film by Javee captures the moments that mattered most. Watch as their love story unfolds in a day that was as beautiful and unique as they are…
If you're planning your own special day and want to ensure every moment is captured with the same care and attention to detail, feel free to reach out. I'd love to help you tell your unique love story through stunning photography.
Stay Beautiful,
Natalie Javier | JV Films Photography